Feminine vs Masculine in Partnership

In the book Quit Like a Woman, the author describes the feminine as being fluid and flexible and the masculine as set in stone and rigid with a focus on to-do lists and productivity. I’m relating this concept back to cheating and marriage.

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Melissa Brumm
The Evolution of Facebook on Millennials

If you were born 1985-1990, you graduated high school around the birth of Facebook. Facebook launched in 2004 and it was originally intended as a way for college kids to meet and stay in touch with their peers. But… We felt we had to grow our friends list to be worthy. Friend became a verb. We “friended” anyone we met - students in our classes, people from work, random girl you met at the coffee shop, people we just met at networking events, and even first dates.

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Melissa Brumm
The Beast of Beauty

There is a play by Andrew Posner called “Life Sucks” which is vaguely based on the Russian author’s Uncle Vanya. It goes through the lives of six characters all living around each other for a weekend. They each hate something about their lives. The “Uncle Vanya” character hates other people and himself, Sonya hates not being beautiful and overlooked, Elea hates being beautiful and not seen.

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Melissa Brumm
The Politics of Being Human

I’m sitting at Wyalusing State Park Campground listening to Bruce Springsteen’s “Wild Horses”, watching my fire and the sunset over the Wisconsin and Mississippi Rivers.

I came here the day after election day and everyone is waiting for results on who will be the next president…

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Melissa Brumm
EDIT - My Letter to Joe Biden

I just wrote Joe Biden a letter, but not for the reason you may think. I was trying to find a photo of me and him from 2016, and I got to reflecting. In this post, I reflect on male dominated industries and how it’s so refreshing and necessary to have men lift women up in the world rather than be intimidated and fearful of them. To see people know that if we lift each other up, we’ll be better. And that’s why Biden choosing Kamala Harris as his running mate is incredible.

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Melissa Brumm
That’s why we drink - an analysis

There’s a song by Justin Moore called “Why We Drink” and the first time I heard this I really liked it. I thought it was really cute. Then the more that I thought about it, the more I thought it wasn’t a very good song for these reasons.

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Melissa Brumm